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QMy fiancee is extremely bothered by me looking at porn.
"Such therapists develop target fixation when porn is involved and lose sight of other, real issues that need to be addressed." The most obvious issue that needs addressing is your fiancee's evident and apparently metastasizing insecurity.
(Yesterday you had to stop watching porn, today you can't go to the beach, tomorrow you won't be able to have female friends.) But since all the therapists you've seen thus far were batshit-crazy sexphobes—or "fixated" on porn, as Ley put it—her issues haven't been addressed.
"LOST's fiancee might be dealing with a form of anxiety disorder, where obsession is sometimes expressed through irrational fears of infidelity," said Ley.
"A therapist who specializes in cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) for anxiety disorders may be helpful, and less likely to get distracted by blaming porn." To find a therapist who specializes in CBT and isn't a batshit-crazy, smut-shaming sexphobe, Ley suggests you find a therapist through the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (aasect.org) or the "Kink Aware Professionals Directory" at the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (ncsfreedom.org).
She has gone through two counselors on her own, and we have gone through two couples counselors.