Here are three possible causes of premature affection: 1. It does not take a genius to know the biggest question on a woman’s mind when out on a first date: Is he truly interested in me, or only in getting me in bed as quickly as possible? Excessive physical contact on a first date may signal a desire to rush through the “formalities” of getting to know each another and fast forward to the benefits of a settled relationship.
A man who can’t keep his hands to himself removes all doubt. Generally this is a symptom of dating fatigue and loneliness — an understandable state recognizable to anyone who has been single for some time. One of the quickest ways to chase away a prospective partner is to smother them with premature expectations.
That’s because it requires a foundation of familiarity, compatibility, and vulnerability that always take time to develop.
The first several dates are meant to lay that groundwork and allow ample time for those feelings to surface naturally — or not.
There is plenty of time for physical affection as you get to know one another on a deeper level.
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This may just be one of the most important lessons related to living out the "Purity Code".