This is particularly true if you have recently put yourself back out on the market after a longer term relationship or if you are relatively new to the gay dating world.
We’ve explored the topic of gay men and relationships in the past when we assessed how some guys unintentionally destroy their relationships.
And because as a community we really don’t have a good blueprint for dating, we’ve had to borrow tips from our straight counterparts.
Not that this is a bad thing – there’s certainly much to be learned.
Believe it or not, there are many guys who do just that and it’s a major turn off. Yes – sexual compatibility is important however, if the focus of the first date is centered on bedroom related topics, you run the risk of confusing why you are meeting him in the first place.