So, you've met a great guy, but after a few dates you begin to realize he's not like the other guys you've been dating.
As a scientist and closet nerd myself, I've known my share of nerdy men.
And yet, mentioning these stories will bring out the apologists, the Not-All-Men, the dismissers and the derailers, and the ones who will continue to complain that women aren’t saying “no” clearly enough. For a lot of guys – especially ones who ignore soft no’s – holding on to those ambiguities gives them the opportunity to try again and again.
In fact, this is the basis of the techniques pick-up artists teach to overcome “last minute resistance” – applying social pressure to coerce a woman into sleeping with the PUA even when she doesn’t want to.
) Books are a great way to expand your mind, increase your vocabulary, relax before bed, and kill time without wifi.
Because we all know the book was better - even if you had to write it yourself.
They’re the ones who deserve to be given a chance, not to be punished for the actions of a few bad actors, right?